Bitching and Moaning....

Oh-K. So I'm not one to usually post incredibly long posts on, but whatever, I'm going to do it anyway!!...I wanna talk to you guys about bitching and moaning. Alright, yes, we all do it, but there are certain individuals who seem to bitch and moan more than others. Here's what I have to say about these individuals......YES life can be hectic at times, and YES there are some days when things just don't seem to go your way, and YES even when you are having a bad day, usually, it does get worse. HOWEVER!!!!!! You can change the course of your bad day by looking at things in a positive light and realizing your day probably isn't as bad as you're making it out to be. YES life sucks. SO WHAT. Make your life, UNSUCK. YOUR life is what YOU make it! So QUIT with the bitching and moaning and GET-THE-HELL OVER IT!!! LIFE is TOO short to be crying about things we cannot change. If you want something bad it enough, YOU make it happen. NO ONE wants to constantly hear all the problems you're dealing with! You got a problem? Solve it!!! And if you're going to throw yourself a pity party, don't invite anyone, nobody wants to go.

Music

Music. It's the one thing in life that can keep me going... It's a way to express what you're feeling without actually having to say out loud. One song can define a certain moment in your life. It's like the person(s) singing the song took exactly what you were thinking and set it to a beat and melody. I'm sure most of us have gone through the period where we can listen to one song over and over and over again, simply because it defines our life in that given moment. It's so intense and passionate and expresses every single thing that we're thinking. I've had instances where one song can define my life for several months, it's the one thing that gets me motivated to get up in the morning and carry on with my daily routine. The emotions that are captured in a song can say everything I want to say and more. Of course my life situations correspond with the song that I can't get enough of, but it is so vastly different for everyone. I'm not creative by any means, but those who are have written it down and put it in a song. Whether it be country, rock, pop, hip hop even classical. Music is the one thing that everyone can relate to. It's a passion, a religion for some, and a love for most. Without music, I wouldn't be here. Would you?

First One...

I decided I needed to find a way to vent, without having to take it out on any one person, so I decided to share it with anyone who wants to read it. There are so many things that I have to say and whether or not anyone wants to read about it, its their option....So here goes my very first blog.


MARRIAGE:


Everyone these days are in such a rush to find "the one" and settle down and get married. That's all well and good, but for the most part, that's really not how the world works people. They say that over half of all marriages in the United States end in divorce, so why are babies getting married? Makes zero sense to me. These kids have been out of high school for four years (MAYBE) and they are ready to make a lifetime commitment to someone? No freaking way!! I'm sorry, being in love and loving someone are two very different things. Not to mention, most of these kids get married on a whim and not because they have taken the time to find out all the little things about the person they're making this promise to. I know I'm not the oldest person in the world, and don't have the life experience that some do, but "forever and ever" is a big freaking deal. Some say when you know you just know...That's awesome. WHATEVER! I'm not saying I don't believe in love and/or the institution of marriage, however, I do believe that that institution is sacred, and I personally don't believe in divorce. When you say "I do" you better mean it.